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while the wind is still cold

I love Nov-Feb time in Singapore.
When it doesn't rain.. it is awesome.
Nice temperature.. nice cold wind at times.
Well.. cold by our tropical standard anyway.

When  it rains.. it's great too.
As long as I am not stuck somewhere outside.

2016 has rolled by faster than my expectation.
A stormy year so far.
Before I knew it, Rak*ten has closed its South East Asia's shops.
A few other big tech companies falter.
And so are banks.. and then some manufacturing companies too.

Oh and there is this fat boy up north with some nuke toys who is making some noise too.
The world is happening.
Of course, being in Singapore we remain in our safe cocoon.
But who knows for how long?

So it kinda tickles me when some friends out there are still doing their part in standing up for social issues such as gender and sexual orientation 'equality'.
not knowing how manipulative the world media is.
and how such issues are deliberately amplified to keep us away from the real issue at hand.

It is enough that we show our love to friends who have such issue.
It is enough that we show grace as God has been gracious to us.
But please.. do your homework and find out who the bully and who the victims are before you draw your own conclusion.

I am not saying that I am in the know.
I have not been blogging much lately precisely because I am having a lot of  'damn-I-am-totally-clueless-afterall' moments.
But sometimes I am just too intrigued to keep quiet.

But.. yeah.. I am clueless after all.
What do I know right? And who am I that what I know matters right?
So rather than blogging much here, I try to do more experiments in life.
More on the experiments next time.

Just one last thing.. if someone is still reading up to here.
I learn something valuable.
Find a place, an environment, a person who can see and appreciate your true worth.

In other words, if you are with someone, be it group of friends or companies, who do not seem to know how to see your value.. leave them.
You do not have to stick with them to prove them wrong.
They don't deserve that.

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