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this love is not perfect

just spoke to a 'friend who decline to be named' regarding her problems with her so-called boyfriend.
well.. not really problems.. just some issues that they need to agree on.

one of the funny stuff she mentioned was the 'love vs career' issue.
she said..
"well we girls do like guys who focus on their careers..
but then.. we also hate it when they prioritize their career
and break their promises to us".

so this is what i believe..
"we are all simply trying to do our best for the ones we love.
but the way we do it.. it's different from one person to another.
just because he put his career first does not mean he loves you any lesser.
and just because a guy put his love first does not mean he care about his career any lesser"

we are only imperfect human, you see..
and in attempting to love.. we try, stumble, broken, got up.. and try again.

if the world ain't applauding our love..
so be it.
coz we are no heroes, no saviors.

well maybe you got some perfect guys and girls out there.

but apparently her boyfriend, and me.. are not.
we are somewhat less than those heroes.

we are simply some flawed, ordinary people
who are in love.

anyone can teach us how to be properly in love.
but no one can cause us to be in love,
no one but the inseparable three.

the you.. the me..
and the Him who makes all thing possible,
the Him who defends and guard our hearts.

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