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Anti-fragile

That's the theme of Mr Taleb's new book.
Mr Taleb, of course, is the guy who shot into fame with his book 'Black Swan'.

One way to be anti-fragile is to be receptive of change. Whatever it means.
To accept that your beloved's feeling could change one day.
To accept that that your feeling could change one day.
To accept that everyone and everything could and would change.. one day.

And that one day can be as random as it gets.

Then you embrace that randomness as the beauty of life.

That way your system would not break down when that change and thus disappointment kick in.
Your damage will be minimal.

Which reminds me of a quote from that movie "Turn Left Turn Right".
That certainty is beautiful, but uncertainty is more beautiful still.

So Mr Taleb is not that original after all.
So I have learned this years ago.

Unfortunately I have yet to master this.
I don't know about you.

And I wonder..  what is the strength behind anti-fragile?
Is it faith? Is it trust?
Or is it..
indifference?

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