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the pursuit

have you read the book 'captivating'?
have you read a dozen of other similar books?
yes.. we get it.
women want to be pursued.
trust me.. we freaking get it.

sure.. japanese coined the terms 'herbivore' males.
it refers to men who are passive about their romantic/sexual relationship.
naturally there are carnivore type too.. even the female carnivore.
yes.. we get your frustration with herbivore guys.
and being a meat lover, i can certainly feel you.

so back to the topic..
you are the prey, and we are the hunter.
that's basically what this whole game rules imply.
while you take every opportunity to remind the guys that you need to be pursued,
i humbly encourage you to reconsider the nature of being a prey.

you are not the only prey in the forest.
you do not dictate how the hunter hunt.
there is no right or wrong way of hunting.
only one thing matters.. result. whether you are caught or not.

so.. are you embracing your role now?

the hunter has no right to complain if he loses his prey.
he has no right to dictate how his prey runs too.
but he certainly has the right to choose how, when or where he hunts.
it is a vast forest after all.

if this whole thing doesn't sound good to you,
that's probably because a prey can never see from the eyes of the hunter.
and of course, vice versa.

so while there is an element of truth in this whole pursuit thing..
I do think that there is something else that matters just as importantly.
taking the courage to step forward at times, maybe?
that would have been most captivating.

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