I am reading the book "Wild at Heart".
One of the most striking points that the author made was that of how many, if not almost all, men are most severely wounded by their own father.
You would have thought that your dad will be the one who believes in you when everyone else is doubting you.
You expect him to do so.
Coz when he does, you know that it ain't matter even if the rest are against you.
So when it turns out that he is siding with those who doubt you.
It hurts the most.
It kills off your hope.
It strips you off your courage and belief to be a real man.
Because the man who is suppose to show you how to be a real man, the one whose approval matters the most.. does not side with you.
He loves you.. yes. But a father's role is not simply to love and nurture.
He is more than just that. He is your assurance, stronghold, strength.
He leads you into adventure, he fights with you side by side, he shows you how to rescue a beauty.
When your father of flesh and blood can't do that, you only have one last source to hope for.
Father in Heaven.
The ultimate source, the original blueprint.
You.. must.. find.. Him.
One of the most striking points that the author made was that of how many, if not almost all, men are most severely wounded by their own father.
You would have thought that your dad will be the one who believes in you when everyone else is doubting you.
You expect him to do so.
Coz when he does, you know that it ain't matter even if the rest are against you.
So when it turns out that he is siding with those who doubt you.
It hurts the most.
It kills off your hope.
It strips you off your courage and belief to be a real man.
Because the man who is suppose to show you how to be a real man, the one whose approval matters the most.. does not side with you.
He loves you.. yes. But a father's role is not simply to love and nurture.
He is more than just that. He is your assurance, stronghold, strength.
He leads you into adventure, he fights with you side by side, he shows you how to rescue a beauty.
When your father of flesh and blood can't do that, you only have one last source to hope for.
Father in Heaven.
The ultimate source, the original blueprint.
You.. must.. find.. Him.
Comments
hahahaha...
China ???
India ???
hihihihi.....
Hehe not China, not India..
Apparently it is a journey to a place we have all known for long..
a place where the story began.
duh gmn sih kalian² tu bisa mendapatkan kata² yg keren² gitu hehe..
Si bapak ketua yg atu inih mah emang punya seribu satu kata yg woooooowwwwww...
Hihihihihihi...
Yahhh,, namana jg caLon penuLis,, hihihhi....
Terpukau yah ce ?? hihihihihi...
Minta iLham dr Father dL ce...
kan kata orang2 dulu, picture worth thousand words.. jadi karena saya tidak punya pictures bagus ky blog kalian, terpaksa space kosong nya diisi kata2 ^^
i think it's a gift to be able to select a word that express thousand expressions hehehe... kewl!
mile by mile,
battle by battle,
till you rescue your own beauty.