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Kata2 belaKa

Orang suka bilang..

"Yah gua seh support ajeh sebagai temen..."

Ato...

"AYoo loe pasti bisa.. "

Sambil dalem atinya ngeraguin whether it is actually possible.

Mungkin it sounds better than jujur bilang

"Gua ga sarankan seh ituh.. "

Ato...

"Kaynya loe kudu lebih realistis seh."

I suppose it's really better to encourage rather than discourage yah.
Irregardless of perasaan ati kita sendiri.

Tapi di saat kita semangatin tuh orang dan di waktu yg sama,
ga rela ato ga berani untuk melangkah bareng dia,
ga punya nyali untuk stand by him..

dan lebih parah lagi, ever ready to tell him

"Tuh kan... benernya gua uda ngerasa emank ga mgkn sehh..."

di saat dia gagal.

What I call the "I told you so" brigade.

Then.. I guess...

Itu bener2 pathetic.

Ada waktunya kita bilang

"Gua support elo!"

cuman di waktu kita berdua ama dia, dan di waktu kita dikelilingi orang2 yang go against him.. kita bakal turn around and say

"Benernya gua juga setuju seh sama mereka.. bla bla bla bla"

Itu jg.. bener2 annoying buat gua.

Karena itu gua appreciate orang2 kaya ex roommate gua si Eko, ato Hadi (biarpun Had.. sometimes your flattery is a bit too much ^^ ).

Karna buat gua.. mrk2 itu orang2 yang, unless wkt lagi becanda, they mean what they say and say what they mean.

Kalo uda nonton Liar Game (which is a great serial, recommended!! ).. bakal berasa gimana jagonya manusia itu berkhianat.

It's almost like our second nature to betray and blame. And we are so good at justifying it.

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