I am about to move company with my friend, Brother John.
I have been speaking to few of the leaders in our next company as we need to decide which division to join.
At one point John asked me if we would offend one of the divisions.
Because we initially seemed to be keen in joining them. But we gave up on the idea.
Well.. what I like about working with John is that we are quite similar personality-wise.
This is one of the examples.
We tend to be over-concerned about how others would feel.
But of course the good thing about working with others is this thing called feedback.
So i told him not to be worried. Coz the other party may not be that bothered after all.
But there are many situations where I can't rely on someone else for feedback.
So I have to tell myself not to be worried too much for what the other party feels.
Because while I am sitting here being concerned, that person may just be in the midst of having good time and well.. that sucks, folks :)
I have been speaking to few of the leaders in our next company as we need to decide which division to join.
At one point John asked me if we would offend one of the divisions.
Because we initially seemed to be keen in joining them. But we gave up on the idea.
Well.. what I like about working with John is that we are quite similar personality-wise.
This is one of the examples.
We tend to be over-concerned about how others would feel.
But of course the good thing about working with others is this thing called feedback.
So i told him not to be worried. Coz the other party may not be that bothered after all.
But there are many situations where I can't rely on someone else for feedback.
So I have to tell myself not to be worried too much for what the other party feels.
Because while I am sitting here being concerned, that person may just be in the midst of having good time and well.. that sucks, folks :)
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