Baru baca satu blog temen, tepat nya orang yg gua kenal doank seh dari jaman di raffles hall dulu, yg lagi protes kalo dia dikasi training sama company, where dia surrounded by stupid people. Dan dia bilank, dia palink benci stupid people. Cowo dia kasi satu advice yg gua rasa bagus banget "kalo loe ga punya something gud to say about someone, mending jgn omong"
Ga tau seh.. sejak masuk NUS, n lalu kerja disini, gua sering banget ngeliat orang2 yang seperti itu. mgkn krn yah.. yg disini ini rata2 anak2 pinter n jenius n talented. jadi being stupid is almost like a sin bagi sebagian dari mrk. remark kaya "stupid" n "idiot" itu sering gua dgr n it hurts me whenever i heard that. okay.. for the sake of objectiveness, maybe i'm biased coz i'm also stupid ^^
dulu pun waktu gua maseh di indo, dikelilingi temen2 yang 'amburadul', kita biasa banget bisa ngatain
"goblok" ato "bego" dan sejenisnya.. tapi kita ngatain dengan nada yang berbeda, maksud yang berbeda, dan kita semua tau.
waktu kita ngatain yang laen 'bego', ga ada sedikitpun tersirat maksud utk bilank kalo kita lebih pinter ato maksud merendahkan org itu. kita ngatain for the sake of ngatain aja.. more like a joke.. jadi uda biasa banget kalo yg juara buntut ngatain yang juara 3 besar "goblok ya loe"..
dan sebaliknya.. n we are fine with that..
tapi ada kala nya lu dgr kata 'stupid' yang carry with it, the sense of judgement and humiliation. as if yang omong itu is the Creator who create every grey cell inside that person's head, thus has every right to claim that this person is a defective product, and therefore, admitting that He (the Creator) is lousy. yg ini yg gua ga tahan dgr. again.. mgkn krn gua stupid hehe.
don't get me wrong, i do think that kita harus punya mental kuat, dan mampu hadapi cercaan dan hinaan dari org2. cuman anak kecil yang naif yang berpikir semua orang harus bersikap baik dan adil sama dia.
but that doesn't give you the rite to call others stupid. u don't even have the power to stop even a single strand of your hair from falling.
so when you really have nothing but bad words to say about someone, its best to just shut up and say nothing.
and u know what is the most ironic part here? it is when you read the bible and it says that God reveals his secret to the fools and the humbled.
Ga tau seh.. sejak masuk NUS, n lalu kerja disini, gua sering banget ngeliat orang2 yang seperti itu. mgkn krn yah.. yg disini ini rata2 anak2 pinter n jenius n talented. jadi being stupid is almost like a sin bagi sebagian dari mrk. remark kaya "stupid" n "idiot" itu sering gua dgr n it hurts me whenever i heard that. okay.. for the sake of objectiveness, maybe i'm biased coz i'm also stupid ^^
dulu pun waktu gua maseh di indo, dikelilingi temen2 yang 'amburadul', kita biasa banget bisa ngatain
"goblok" ato "bego" dan sejenisnya.. tapi kita ngatain dengan nada yang berbeda, maksud yang berbeda, dan kita semua tau.
waktu kita ngatain yang laen 'bego', ga ada sedikitpun tersirat maksud utk bilank kalo kita lebih pinter ato maksud merendahkan org itu. kita ngatain for the sake of ngatain aja.. more like a joke.. jadi uda biasa banget kalo yg juara buntut ngatain yang juara 3 besar "goblok ya loe"..
dan sebaliknya.. n we are fine with that..
tapi ada kala nya lu dgr kata 'stupid' yang carry with it, the sense of judgement and humiliation. as if yang omong itu is the Creator who create every grey cell inside that person's head, thus has every right to claim that this person is a defective product, and therefore, admitting that He (the Creator) is lousy. yg ini yg gua ga tahan dgr. again.. mgkn krn gua stupid hehe.
don't get me wrong, i do think that kita harus punya mental kuat, dan mampu hadapi cercaan dan hinaan dari org2. cuman anak kecil yang naif yang berpikir semua orang harus bersikap baik dan adil sama dia.
but that doesn't give you the rite to call others stupid. u don't even have the power to stop even a single strand of your hair from falling.
so when you really have nothing but bad words to say about someone, its best to just shut up and say nothing.
and u know what is the most ironic part here? it is when you read the bible and it says that God reveals his secret to the fools and the humbled.
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