When I saw Suri's nick,
it reminds me of a book I read, a Christian book btw,
which talked about why good boy always lose out to bad boy when it comes to love.
and just as her nick said it, it was because good boys are boring.
girls love to be thrilled, to be brought into adventure, and so on..
the so-called bad boy theory.
of course there is also another book, not a Christian book,
that discuss the issue of why guys tend to fall for b*tches.
pardon the word.
and at least i can say that it's quite true.. naughty gals are indeed interesting.
but the point is..
i believe when you reach certain age..
you just outgrow such stuff.
at least for guy, i can say that...
you finally realise that you don't need to be a bad boy for anyone's sake,
and the b*tch factor has also lost its importance in your eyes.
the book I read did say that girls too would
learn that good or bad boy is not the issue after all.
but i dunno if that's true, coz i am not expert with girls =)
the point is not..
whether the bad boy theory is valid or not.. (they are quite valid, anyway)
it is that you don't have to change anything in you,
just so that you find love.
just like gravity theory,
yes it exists and you agree,
but it is not something you should work on, or worry about.
we just need to learn to be a man.
maybe that's the point.
and not everyone has the right to tell you how to be one,
especially if that person is not even a man.
it reminds me of a book I read, a Christian book btw,
which talked about why good boy always lose out to bad boy when it comes to love.
and just as her nick said it, it was because good boys are boring.
girls love to be thrilled, to be brought into adventure, and so on..
the so-called bad boy theory.
of course there is also another book, not a Christian book,
that discuss the issue of why guys tend to fall for b*tches.
pardon the word.
and at least i can say that it's quite true.. naughty gals are indeed interesting.
but the point is..
i believe when you reach certain age..
you just outgrow such stuff.
at least for guy, i can say that...
you finally realise that you don't need to be a bad boy for anyone's sake,
and the b*tch factor has also lost its importance in your eyes.
the book I read did say that girls too would
learn that good or bad boy is not the issue after all.
but i dunno if that's true, coz i am not expert with girls =)
the point is not..
whether the bad boy theory is valid or not.. (they are quite valid, anyway)
it is that you don't have to change anything in you,
just so that you find love.
just like gravity theory,
yes it exists and you agree,
but it is not something you should work on, or worry about.
we just need to learn to be a man.
maybe that's the point.
and not everyone has the right to tell you how to be one,
especially if that person is not even a man.
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